How Young Is Too Young?

Dispute what people thought, my husband and I got married. That was almost seven years ago. I was 20 and he was 23.  The decision was anomyous between the two of us when we began to dating officially and exclusively. We vowed to date with a purpose. Our relationship was clearly defined after 3 months of “talking”, “kicking it”, “hanging out” or what ever the kids are calling it now. I know women say this but I KNEW he was my husband and I told him.  His response was “I don’t know about that, I have to talk to my mom.” And he did. He called her right in front of me.
He was looking for confirmation and of course she didn’t give it to him. 

I started dating and decided to marry my husband at 19. We got engaged after 8 months and said I do on our one year anniversary. When I heard the news of Miley Cyrus’s recent engagement, I wasn’t surprised I made the decision at that age. I also know others who married young and are still going strong. I received a call from My Fox Houston to weigh in on the subject. I happily obliged. What’s the big deal I thought. Miley Cyrus I believe has proving to be responsible in her decisions. 

 I understand that 50% of marriages end in divorce.  The media perpetuates the stigma of black love. In past years stories entitled “Why Can’t A Success Black Woman Find A Man.” and “Why are There So Many Single Black Women” have run.  Making it more believable that love and especially black love does not exist.   Its rare that black couples last. I’m thankful that despite the hardships of life The Floyd’s are still standing and growing together.  I was a little disappointed to see that the segment has once again taking a negative spin on the subject. But give me your thoughts.

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My Black Is Beautiful Live Houston


My Black is Beautiful Brings It’s LIVE! Experience to the City of Houston for the First Time Ever—Saturday, September 11, 2010

Join Hip Hop Pioneer & Activist, MC Lyte & Houston Native and R& B Singer Leela James for My Black is Beautiful LIVE! event that is coming to Houston for the first time, September 11, 2010. Thousands of female attendees are invited to enjoy complimentary massages, manicures, facials, hairstyling and mini makeovers by the beauty experts of Pantene®, Olay® and CoverGirl® Queen Collection. The My Black is Beautiful initiative is a national movement created to celebrate African-­‐American beauty and encourage black women and girls to define and promote their own beauty standard. The event will feature performances from Hip-­‐Hop pioneer, MC Lyte, and R&B/Jazz singer, Leela James; as well as, the opportunity to participate in our national model search.

Auditions will take place during the day and eight (8) semi-­‐finalists will be chosen to advance on to the finals. The winner will be featured in a national ad campaign for the brand.

My Black is Beautiful LIVE arrives in Houston, TX on Saturday, September 11, 2010 from 11:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. at the Reliant Center, One Reliant Park, Houston, TX 77054. For tickets to this free event visit

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Brand Management

2 Written By Tamara L. Floyd

Today, many people are using the term “Brand Management” very loosely.  But what is brand management?  Brand Management is the application of marketing techniques to a specific product, product line, or brand.  This phrase has been used more frequently with the commercialization of various social media website such as Myspace, Facebook, Twitter and the list goes on.  At the end of the day you should ask yourself what is your brand and what techniques are you using to managing this brand.

Kleenex vs. Tissue is the ultimate example of successful brand management.  Kleenex’s brand is so strong that a good percentage of American’s will ask for a ‘Kleenex’ vs. a ‘Tissue’ when they need to blow their nose.  Think about it.  A Kleenex is a tissue but tissue is not necessarily a Kleenex but for many; Kleenex is synonymous for tissue.  There are other similar examples of optimal branding.  By far Kleenex vs. tissue is the most universal in the American culture. 

As an entrepreneur, it’s important that you identify how you would like to be branded.  After this very important step, consistency is key.  Many self-employed individuals struggle not with consistent messages but too many messages.  Yes, I believe it is very important to have multiple revenue streams but it is equally important to find that something that bridges all your business ventures; which will monopolize your overall brand.  You are building a brand foundation.  Once that foundation is established you can very easier build on top of it. 

How are you managing your brand?

Contrary to popular belief, brand management is more than creating social media pages but can be a small piece of the puzzle.  There is a rumor going around that social media is free.  Okay, before I confuse you let me clarify.  Social media is free but in order to receive the best ROI (return on your investment) contract a marketing specialist.  Your marketing specialist can assist with managing and/or creating your social networking pages.   Social media is free but it is not cheap because it is very time consuming and not very effective if not utilized correctly.  These sites are changing daily it is for this reason that it is important to have a consultant that understands these change and help your company benefit from them.  You can easily turn your friends and/or followers into paid customers.  After identifying your brand, identify the purpose of branding.  If you are a store or restaurant owner, the purpose of branding is to obtain or retain customers.  You can use various social media websites to obtain a following of customers and encourage potential customers to follow by offering online specials.

Take Home Points

These questions will help you identify branding opportunities within your company.

1. What are you branding?

2. What is the purpose of brand management for your particular business?

3. What techniques are you going to utilize for effective brand management?

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How to Make Money with Social Media


Social media is more about making friends. It can be about making money as well. Financial analyst Clyde Anderson shows a jeweler the steps to take for a social media make-over to help grow his business.

For the First Time in Texas

27348_118404888_4963_n Join Lamar and Ronnie Tyler, Directors and Producers of You Save Me.
“You Saved Me” Free Screening and Discussion
Friday, July 30th at 7:30 pm (doors open at 7:00pm)
The Fountain of Praise
South Post Oak Campus
13535 South Post Oak Road
Houston, TX 77045